June is Elder Abuse Awareness Month

submitted by Paula Lang, elder victim advocate

JUNE 2025

Mom always said, “Respect your elders,” a sentiment reflecting the inherent value of wisdom and experience that comes with age. However, aging transcends mere calendar years; it encompasses profound physical and emotional changes that alter how society perceives and interacts with individuals. As we age, we often find ourselves subjected to different treatment—sometimes positive, but frequently negative. The societal tendency to avoid rather than engage with the elderly can lead to feelings of abandonment for those who are left isolated in their later years.

Elder abuse manifests in various forms, including emotional, psychological, and verbal mistreatment. This abuse often stems from a sense of power imbalance that results in isolation and distress among older adults. It can be as overt as verbal insults or as subtle as neglecting their needs. Tragically, studies indicate that family members are frequently the perpetrators of such abuse, making it imperative for society to confront this uncomfortable truth.

The complexity of elder abuse arises from multiple factors such as familial history and caregiver stressors. Societal attitudes toward aging may further exacerbate these issues by fostering environments where abuse goes unnoticed or unreported due to stigma surrounding family matters. Elderly individuals deserve love and protection; however, many find themselves vulnerable to mistreatment that is neither justified nor acceptable.

Awareness within communities is crucial for combating elder abuse effectively. Community members should actively engage in raising awareness about its signs while offering practical support—be it through providing meals or simply checking on elderly neighbors. Education on elder rights can empower both caregivers and seniors alike, creating an environment where respect prevails over neglect.

To take actionable steps against elder abuse is essential for fostering a culture of respect towards older adults. Individuals can educate themselves about the signs of mistreatment while maintaining regular contact with elderly loved ones to gauge their well-being actively. Volunteering at nursing homes or assisting caregivers provides critical respite while promoting social interactions that diminish feelings of isolation among seniors.

This is the painful reality faced by many elderly individuals abandoned by their families under various circumstances --not only a personal failure but also a societal one—failing to uphold our duty towards our elders who have contributed so much throughout their lives.